Friday, December 9, 2022

Things i really want to do

 

Draw spartans n brutes with Isaiah on a lightboard.

Embroider the girls plain jumper dresses, with the girls.

Make self watering planters from the old Rubbermaid containers and plant lettuce and carrots with the kids.

Go on a date with Josh, dawn walk through the bird preserve, holding hands.

Caroling around the Christmas tree. Atleast 12 carols, with harmony. And holding candles.

St. Lucy's day celebration with the kids and mariam wearing a crown of candles, and hot cross buns.




Make a plain dark dirndl, and embroider it. 

Go to adoration, work things out with God. Have a sacramental communion. Possibly a prayer vigil.


Thursday, November 3, 2022

October in Phoenix

The very end of September is when the insane rush of summer hints it is weakening, maybe, just after Bilbo's birthday. You still are wearing thin cotton short sleeves and shorts, outside, after sunset, to go outside.

October....comes in on triple digits and refilling the ice cube tray, and on the last day, leaving with grey skies, rooting around in the kid's room for their long sleeves and boots, as desert-born babies cry about needing mittens in the frigid 60's. 

 One month ago, October first, the kids clustered into the tiny pockets of shade created by my pathetic shade tarps, torn by the wind. They clustered, like bees around the water-spigot in the Phoenix street. Groups of living beings huddled together in the small patches of relief, provided by a little bit of frayed fabric flapping between them and the relentless face of nuclear reactor that lights our world. 

Now, November first... the shadows lengthen far beyond the height of the structures that created them. The shadow of the house falls across the entire middle of the backyard, a solid dark coolness, barely skirting the trunks of the citrus trees on the edge. Peter fig struggles to get enough sunlight, his little green figs stuck in stasis, as I scramble to find a new place to plant him. The shed turns the back corner into a deep shadow, damp and cool. 

Suddenly, the sun is no longer an enemy, trying to burn you into retreat. It's glimmer peeking over the eastern horizon no longer threatening, but cheering. Rays that touch your skin feel friendly, warming. Long-forgotten socks need to be hunted down and matched, suddenly no longer the unwanted refugees offloaded from laundry basket to laundry basket and ending up stashed behind hampers in the laundry room. 

All those ranger boots and cloaks, worn only by proud and overheated 8 yr olds in front of the mirror for 10 minutes, before they were shed in sweating desperation.... are now suddenly practical. A fire seems like a real thing, not an expensive way to toast a few marshamellows as we cosplay "camping" for the kids, before retreating into an air-conditioned building. 

So November is Ranger month. When things like long sleeves, cloaks, fire, and boots are suddenly no longer ornaments and props from a different world... but real.

We are the prisoners of the sun, released. Our ship has docked from the deserts of mars, into the realm of Arnor.

We are rangers now, under a grey sky.

Monday, June 13, 2022

Goals for June and July 2022

 For June, July, August 2022


Big Goals

Category 1. Learn how to draw my strength from God. Learn how to drink in His beauty,, His presence through worship,, through looking at Him. To see nothing without Him in the picture.

Its the only way I'm making it through this life.

Category 2. Spend more time with the kiddos. Because they won't be kiddos much longer. Savor the time. Enjoy *being with them.*

From babies to toddlers to teens in the blink of an eye.

Time with them, sacred, unrepeatable.

It's a precious gift, running like water in a river, unrepeatable, fleeting as the sunlight shimmering on that water.

Category 3. Family Adventures. Camping, hiking, water-fight.

Category 4. Share my now-ancient hobbies with the kids. (Gardening, painting, drawing, sewing, Leather-work, etc)

Category 5. Make significant progress in homeschool. Because while overrated (see category 2.) education is somewhat important.

Category 6. Chores & cleaning. Because its hard to enjoy life when there are no clean spoons or clean underwear.

Category 7. Home and garden improvement.

Category 1. 

  1. Spend 10 minutes with God, first thing in the morning. Set a timer if you have to.
  2. Really pray at family prayer time in the evenings.
  3.  Pray at breakfast. Read them Bible at breakfast.
  4. Put on worship music at 5pm, every day.

Category 2.

  1. For the littles, have reading time in the brown chair
  2. Isaiah read to me 3 Bulla books, and discuss it.
  3. Teach the girls how to braid their hair 2 braids, braided top bun.
  4. Rock and sing to the girls after prayer-time, Thursday night.. One song for each girl.

Category 3. 

  1. Make family dinner a big deal. Ready ON the table at 6pm (start getting ready at 5pm, worship music!) We will SING HYMNS sitting there until Josh shows up.
  2. 7pm to 8pm, family outside time. 
  3. MINGUS MOUNTAIN!! Plan 3 trips. Streamline camping supplies and packing.
  4. Make singing hymns at family prayer-time a big deal. 3 hymns a night. Have them sing. 
    1. How great Thou Art
    2. O the deep deep love of Jesus
    3. Be Thou my Vision

Category 4. 

  1. Work on a camping kit for each kid. To carry: a waterbottlesleeve, snack pouch, flashlight pouch, handkercief [knife], sword loop.
  2. Drawing lessons: Teach Isaiah how to use the light-board. Draw elites, grunts, brutes, or Spartans
  3. Home Improvement...with the kids???
    1. w/Kids Shade structure for playset. 
    2. w/Kids Sand and paint the picnic table
    3. w/Kids Finish front planter, transplant roses there
    4. w/Kids Clean the back yard (mulch moved, dirt pile into berm-walls, couch trashed)

 Category 5. 

  1. Have at least 1.5 hrs of MORNING homeschool time for the 3 big kids. 3 Rs. 
  2. Family reading time: finish Taharka, start Hittite Warrior
  3. Isaiah read me "Sword in the Tree" and "Lion to Guard us", and discuss it.
  4. Have daily time with M and S and A, working through the phonics book how to read.
  5. For preschool: have M teach numbers/math, K teach letters/reading, and J teach Hebrew, and Isaiah teach history

Category 6. 

  1. Praise them!!! That they will know YOU CAN MAKE THE WORLD BEAUTIFUL
  2. Frequent After meals, and before dinner. 4x a day. 
  3. CHEERFULLY with them.Wheat in a cows stomach. Try no guilt and no yelling. Go from kidbto kid, teaching them techniques. Gentle voice, giving my tips, always positive. 
  4. PUAYA. Put away after your activity. Build habits: Tidy becomes their new baseline. Where they hang their coat up without thinking about it....

 Category 7. 

  1. Finish setting up toy-room
  2. Finish setting up Isaiah's room
  3. Set up family computer in LR for homeschool
  4. Shed 2 organized
  5. Organize girls room. 
  6. Set up Hyrule Castle
  7. w/Kids Shade structure for playset. 
  8. w/Kids Sand and paint the picnic table
  9. w/Kids Finish front planter, transplant roses there
  10. w/Kids Clean the back yard (mulch moved, dirt pile into berm-walls, couch trashed)
  11. Washing machine Freezer?
  12. Insulate girls room, top off white and yellow rooms.
  13. Toilet flusher in master bedroom

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Ideas for aug sept

Category 2: Hold a meeting with the 3 big ones where you field their questions before homeschool time----- 

Category 4: Start the Crafting Rotation, Sew 2 calico critter clothes for/with each girl over 2. 

Category 7: 

  1. get ibc containers and drums . 
  2. Prepare for veggie garden, start sprouting from seed, etc. Plant in ground end of September. Tomatoes, okra, spinach, kale, chard, micrometers, beets radishes carrots, cucumbers, squash etc.

Thursday, March 31, 2022

Goals for April and May 2022



Big Goals

Category 1. Learn how to draw my strength from God. Learn how to drink in His beauty,, His presence through worship,, through looking at Him. To see nothing without Him in the picture.

Its the only way I'm making it through this life.

Category 2. Spend more time with the kiddos. Because they won't be kiddos much longer. Savor the time. Enjoy *being with them.*

From babies to toddlers to teens in the blink of an eye.

Time with them, sacred, unrepeatable.

It's a precious gift, running like water in a river, unrepeatable, fleeting as the sunlight shimmering on that water.

Category 3. Family Adventures. Camping, hiking, waterfight.

Category 4. Share my now-ancient hobbies with the kids. (Gardening, painting, drawing, sewing, Leatherwork, etc)

Category 5. Make significant progress in homeschool. Because while overrated (see category 2.) education is somewhat important.

Category 6. Chores & cleaning. Because its hard to enjoy life when there are no clean spoons or clean underwear.

Category 7. Home and garden improvement.


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I will set a tangible goal(s) and a habit for each category, every 2 months.

For April & May 2022

Category 1. 

  1. Really pray at family prayer time in the evenings.
  2.  Pray at breakfast. Read them Bible at breakfast.
  3. Put on worship music at 5pm, every day.

Category 2.

  1. Rock and sing to the girls after prayertime, every night. One song for each girl.
  2. For the littles, have reading time in the brown chair
  3. Isaiah read me "Sword in the Tree" and "Lion to Guard us", and discuss it.
  4. Teach Jenny and Keziah 2 new hairstyles

Category 3. 

Still recovering from childbirth. Try Saturday morning picnics in the park. 

  1. Make family dinner a big deal. Ready ON the table at 6pm (start getting ready at 5pm, worship music!) 
  2. Make singing hymns at family prayertime a big deal. 3 hymns a night. Have them sing. 
    1. How great Thou Art
    2. O the deep deep love of Jesus
    3. Be Thou my Vision

Category 4. 

  1. Sew 2 calico critter clothes for/with each girl over 2. (So 10 outfits)
  2. Teach Isaiah how to use the lightboard. Draw elites, grunts, brutes, or spartans.

 Category 5. 

  1. Have at least 1.5 hrs of MORNING homeschool time for the 3 big kids. 3 Rs.
  2. Have daily time with M and S and A, working through the phonics book how to read.
  3. For preschool: have M teach numbers/math, K teach letters/reading, and J teach Hebrew, and Isaiah teach history

Category 6. 

  1. Praise them!!! Thatvthey will know YOU CAN MAKE THE WORLD BEAUTIFUL
  2. Frequent After meals, and before dinner. 4x a day. 
  3. CHEERFULLY with them.Wheat in a cows stomach. Try no guilt and no yelling. Go from kidbto kid, teaching them techniques. Gentle voice, giving my tips, always positive. 
  4. PUAYA. Put away after your activity. Build habits: Tidy becomes their new baseline. Where they hang their coat up without thinking about it....

 Category 7. 

  1. Set up the toyroom
  2. Put bunk beds in the girls room
  3. Shade structure for playset. 
  4. 2 more Pakistani Mulberries shade trees, one more mulberry for circle of green. 
  5. contact wallbuilders
  6. Green the back wall.

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Ideas for June-July

Category 2: Hold a meeting with the 3 big ones where you field their questions before homeschool time----- 

Category 4: Start the Crafting Rotation, each kid a turn

Saturday, March 19, 2022

Introducing the newest Sadar

There's been 2 new little sadars in the last few years.
I just hadn't updated my blog in a while.
Little Ruhi, born in the midst of covid drama, spring of 2020. The bright spot of 2020.
Now she's a feisty little whirlwind.



And now little Irene, born almost 2 years later, also in the phoenix spring.


Her middle name means 
the glory/burden of the LORD.

She is His precious burden. And His glory. 




Little Irene, God holds you in His heart, every second of your life. May you know His heart, and His joy.

Saturday, February 5, 2022

Plans to Survive the Summer Heat in Phoenix AZ

Stay outside as much as possible in the beautiful months, November, [December, January], February, March, April. Do major garden plans. Try to spend at least 2 hours outside every day. Plan local family hiking trips. Lost Dutchman, Fat Man's pass, Hidden Valley, Pioneer Museum.  Also, do outdoor home improvement and anything that involves curing concrete or climbing up into the attic, e.g. installing lights or fans, in this time.

Pioneer Museum


December and January it is still beautiful, just a little chilly. Be outside in more peak sun hours, near noon just with a hat, and make the kids wear shoes!! Put on a nice warm fleece coat for the colder months, and go outside anyways. The time to dig the earth (when its softer, don't need a pickaxe as much, and can go 3x as fast) is January and February, after the winter rains have softened it up.




By 2nd half of May, and first half of June, the mornings are still really beautiful. Get up at 6am and go outside till 8am. October is like May and June. Chase the sunrise. Get up at 5am or 6am and go out to the garden.
 

2nd half of June, July, August, September...are a cross to be borne. You can try to beat the sun up, but often its a warm tired world even at dawn. 

Sunrise and Sunset times. Sunrise and Sunset times here.

  • May 15    5:28am,  7:21pm
  • June 15    5:18am,  7:39pm
  • July 15     5:29am,  7:38pm
  • Aug 15     5:50am,  7:14pm
  • Sept 15     6:11am,   6:34pm
  • Oct 15      6:32am,  5:54pm

 

STRATEGY: 

1. Homeschool. 
    1. Kids can't play outside, so may as well get school done. This should be the core of our homeschool, the most intense part of it. Try to cram in 2/3rds of their curriculum here. 
    2. Prioritize "Mom's reading time" to the kids, and pick Sonlight-esque historical novels to read to the children, every day. Try to get through at least 6 historical novels with the kiddos every summer. Maybe we can illustrate them too, in their art portfolios.
    3. Do 3-4 week chunks of intense school and as a reward, go on a weekend camping trip up to Prescott or Mingus Mountain. 
2. OUTSIDE AT TWILIGHTS
Best times are Dawn, and the Golden Hour. Best hour of the morning, (immediately following astronomical sunrise), outside around sunset (40 min before astronomical sunset, and 20 min after). Sunrise and Sunset times here.
 Go outside at the Dawn Hour
        • May         5:28-6:30am
        • June 15    5:18-6:20am
        • July 15     5:28-6:30am
        • Aug 15     5:50-7:00am
        • Sept 15     6:10-7:15am
        • Oct 15      6:30-7:30am
Go outside at the Golden Hour.  
        • May 15    6:40- 7:40pm
        • June 15    7:00-8:00pm
        • July 15     7:00-8:00pm
        • Aug 15     6:35-7:35pm
        • Sept 15     6:00-7:00pm
        • Oct 15      5:20-6:20pm
MUST be inside 8:30 to 4 pm. UV index is high then (even till 5pm in June) Daily UV index here.


 If kids go outside at 4pm, they must drink water first, stay in the shade, and even better if they are splashing eachother with water.
 
3. OUTSIDE WATER TIME
    1.  Every Friday, no matter what, get some way to incorporate water into our lives. 
    2. GET A WADING POOL and fill it up once a week. Let the kids play in it and then dump it into a tree berm. Make little channels or something. Have a "Family Wet night" and hose everyone down and give them squirtguns, maybe after dinner every Friday or Thursday.
    3. Waterfights during the golden hour (40 min before astronomical sunset, and 20 min after)
    4. ?In May/June try to see if there are pools and maybe go out to them on the dollar family nights. Aim to go to the pool maybe 6 times before the lightning weather hits.
4. Indoor Movement: 
    1. Indoor "Gym": This is also the time to focus on HIIT exercises indoors with the kids. And maybe lifting weights, resistence bands, and working toward calisthenics.
    2. Dance: Put on the music that makes the blood pump, and get the kids to dance. Do the Breath of the Wild Gerudo music with the scarves, Learn Irish music dance, Teach them English Country Dancing with Hobbit Music, Ballet moves.
    3. Sword-fighting: get serious about using the sword-fighting textbooks, and teaching them the different positions. 
5. Crafting:
    1. Teach the kids how to sew: Elven cloaks, Hobbit Dresses, calico critter clothes
    2. Teach the kids how to craft: Headbands, earrings, wirework, metalwork. Make BotW stuff with them.
    3. Learn leatherwork with the kids. Make cool Ranger Gear for our camping trips!! Make bracers, leather armor, sheaths, straps for carrying things, pouches. Turn old thriftstore purses into cool pouches and beackpacks.
    4. Book-making: Calligraphy, sewing together folios, bookbinding. We can start with binding our art portfolios. The dream is one day for each kid to make and illustrate their own leatherbound Gospel....
6.   Art
    1. Teach the kids how to draw. Use the lightboxes, the "Draw 50" series. Illustrate stories. Pick a theme ("Rangers") and have everyone draw a picture, and make a portfolio
    2. Each kid have an "Art Portfolio". Pick a theme every week, or illustrate from whatever Sonlight book we are reading.
    3. Learn how to watercolor with the kids!! (Claudia Nice, and youtube)
    4. Illustrate the Woodcutter and the Wolf-king
    5. Smock everyone up and do Acrylic paint with the kids. Finish those icon sets I wanted to make long ago. 
7. Start the Garden.
    1. Start the tomatoes indoors, everything that will go into the ground when the monsoon comes. Set up 2 muligs with LED shop lights in my room.  Wrap in aluminum covered posterboard or windshield reflectors.
8. Indoor Home Improvement (that does not involve the attic[!] or setting concrete)
    1. Painting
    2. Plumbing
    3. Flooring
    4. ?scraping popcorn ceilings?
    5. ?some LED lighting, from the inside?
    6. Updating Bathrooms
Home improvement with toddlers


Recap:

Beautiful Months

  • November
    • December (with ranger coat and boots, shoes, cloaks, coats)
    • January 
  • February 
  • March (start the hot veggies) [Kids wear hats]
  • April (pick grandparents citrus) [Kids wear hats]
Chase the Sunrise (Best hour immediately following astronomical sunrise), outside around sunset (Best hour, 40 min before astronomical sunset, and 20 min after)
  •  May

Survive, School, and do Indoor things, start from seed indoors.

  • June
  • July
  • August (harvest olives at the park)
  • Sept (finish olive harvest at the park)

Chase the Sunrise , outside at sunset 

  • October [Kids wear hats!]

 

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Note on UV indexes:

These actually matter. White people aren't used to high UV indexes. They come from the Northern Lands, on a pole of our planet, where the sun is dimmed by the tilt of the earth. Their dna is exposed in semi-translucent skin, to the dimmer pole-sun. Their skin does not contain the armor of melanin, that shields their dna, against our Star's radiation in the more equatorial lattitudes.

e.g. in London in late April the UV index maxes out at a 3.  In Phoenix on the same day, its a 9. Being closer to the equator makes a huge difference. Then throw in the never-ending blue sky, and even compared to Dallas TX, we have no "off" days where cloud cover keeps the UV to a 3. Its unrelenting sun all the time. In June and July, Phoenix tops out at 11/12.

Roughly, equinoxes are March 20th and Sept 20th. Solstices are June 20th and Dec 20th. So from a UV exposure perspective, the danger zone is April through September. 

Since the kids are inside from 8 to 4 June through September (too hot to be in the sunlight), the "danger zone" is really March & April, October. This is when it feels nice and cool, but the UV index is still very high (compared to the Northern lattitudes to which their ancestors grew up.) So they aren't programmed to avoid sunlight at these nice temperatures, even though the UV index is frying their dna through their translucent northern skin. This is when insisting on hats is very important.

Chart when UV index hits 3, and comes down from 3

  hits 3 down to 3
April 8:15 4:15
May 8:15 4:45
June 8:15 5:00
July 8:15 4:40
August 8:15 4:40
September 8:30 3:45
October 9:30 2:45
November 10:15 1:45
December 10:30 1:30
Jan 10:30 3:30
Feb 9:45 3:45
March 9:15 3:45


Full chart, including when it hits 4




  hits 3 hits 4 down to 4 down to 3
April 8:15 9:00 3:45 4:15
May 8:15 8:45 4:15 4:45
June 8:15 9:00 4:30 5:00
July 8:15 9:00 4:15 4:40
August 8:15 9:00 4:00 4:40
September 8:30 9:00 3:00 3:45
October 9:30 10:15 2:15 2:45
November 10:15     1:45
December 10:30     1:30
Jan 10:30     3:30
Feb 9:45 10:30 3:00 3:45
March 9:15 10:00 3:15 3:45